I decided to straighten my hair myself to wear it down instead of the usual bun. So I washed my hair early in the morning then went online to see how I should best go about it. And I realize the problem before might have been the products used. The hairdresser flat-ironed my hair as if it were just processed (and the ends are), but ignored the fact that my roots are very much natural. Anyway, the overall thing seems to be don't wear your hair down with products (guilty). So I used a little bit of shine booster in six sections throughout my hair and loosely twisted them.
Optimum Oil Therapy
Then I sat under a hooded drier on medium heat for 45 minutes. After this my hair was mostly dry, with a nice loose curl. Pulled out the twist and blow dried, again on a medium heat setting. Then came the hard part. Starting at the nape I pulled small 2-3 inch section of hair rubbed a small amount of KeraCare creme press from roots to ends.
Then I used the flat iron on medium to high heat, passing the flat irno over each section three times. The first thing I noticed was that I didn't smell scorched hair and the ends of my hair didn't looked crisp. After finishing everything (I don't even want to think about how long it all took) I pin curled my hair, not very neatly but whatever, and covered with a silk bonnet (not cute). When I took down my hair in the evening I only had to recurl two section at the front. All in all, it lasted well throughout the evening in cold weather and ac. And the next morning excpecting the worst and thinking of all the time I spent on my hair yesterday, I was pleasantly surprised that it was looking fine.
KeraCare creme press
Yes, I need a trim/cut
It takes forever, but since this won't be a regular thing for me, that's fine. I do wonder how naturals who keep their hair straight manage this on a regular though.